Should I try BDSM?

[SweetiepieSam]

Should I try BDSM? I think my SD is very very into it. He's been hinting for a while now that he wants to start that with me but I'm not sure about it. I don't know much about it but it looks really scary. I also don't want to lose him. We are good for each other and I don't want this to be a dealbreaker but I don't know if I can get into it like he wants me to. Should I try it? Need advice from someone who has done it before.

[Molly-may]

I mean you might like it but you won't know it. It's not for everyone and that's alright but also a lot of people are afraid to try it as well and that's why so many people think that it's scary or weird. Like being a sugar baby people don't understand it so they think that there's something weird about it but obviously the sugar babying thing worked out better for you so the BDSM thing might do the same. But it can be very sexy and it can bring you and your sugar daddy closer together too. I wouldn't do anything too extreme if you're nervous about it but starting small with something like spanking could be the step in the right direction. At least you can say that you tried it and sugar daddy will be happy that you took the chance for him

[Raisa]

I would do more research before you make that decision. Like watching some videos or even find some blogs online. I don't think that you are able to make a mature decision until you know more. I don't think it's fair to say that you will like it if you know nothing about it so take some time and actually do some research before you think about trying out. I really don't think that everyone feels the same way so you really do need to think about this more before agreeing to it. Okay now I'm just rambling...

[Neema]

I wouldn't just do something to make your SD happy. I mean it's important for sure and I think that you should think about it but also you shouldn't do things just to make other people happy. You aren't going to be able to get much from that so it's better to find something that makes you both happy. That's what's going to work better for your relationship. Especially if it's something that you really don't want to do or something that you don't think that you'll like

[La_Lune]

I have dabbled in that type of lifestyle especially when I was younger. It can be very sexy and exciting for your relationship but you need to talk about it first. It's not something that's easy to just get into. I mean you can do lots of spanking and maybe even some bondage but if he's into anything more hardcore then you want to make sure that you're talking consent and checklists and loads of other things. I think that your sugar daddy is already making that first step and he's waiting for you to talk to him about it. So you can tell him what you're interested in trying and what your boundaries are and what you won't do at all

[Neema]

I was just saying that she needs to make sure that it's something that she wants and not just agree to do something. BDSM can be a lot to handle so you need to make sure that you're prepared and done your homework

[SweetiepieSam]

Like a book? Or should I look online? You can find everything on the internet I'm sure so there's probably a lot of stuff about it. You're right that I don't know anything about it. I think that it's just kinky sex dungeons and lots of pain and I'm not ready for that and I don't like it

[Neema]

Well it's not just about pain. BDSM comes in so many different shapes and forms. You should do your research and then ask your sugar daddy what he is expecting from you. Maybe he wants to be dominated instead or dominating you. That is a thing you know

[JessieJay]

You should do a research about it first in order to know what it is all about and for you to not go to it straight. BDSM is not all about using chains and whips. There are rules that have to be followed as well. If you're done enough research, that's the time you have to think of the things that you might be fun for you and SD

[BohoKween]

You should talk to your daddy that you're scared of trying it. If he truly is into you, he might not force you into doing it. And I think that he would take things slow on you when it comes to that. Maybe he might show you what usually happens when it comes to having a BDSM session

[Biggie]

I think that those kind of things are one of the first things that you've talked about when the first time you've become his baby. Because he might automatically assume that you're into that as well especially if he have mentioned it before hand

[NotoriousMOM]

The only time that you have to talk about that one is when he asks you about it. If he's not into it, then good for you. And if he's into it, just tell him what your limits are and tell him your safe word immediately

[BillyOrgan]

If he's been hinting about it for quite some time, then you should talk about it already. Ask him what he wants to try or do to you and you tell him your limits as well. If he's a really good and understanding sugar daddy he wouldn't force you into doing things that you're not interested in

[IzzySteezy]

So are you into that kind of fun as well?

[BillyOrgan]

more or less, just the handcuffs, blindfold and that sort of stuff