How do I keep his attention?

[Maidforyou]

I'm having a bit of situation and I need all the help that I can get. I think that my sugar daddy is getting bored with me. I don't know what's going on with us really but he hasn't been calling me as much and I'm noticing a difference when we're together. He seems like he's thinking about something else. Sometimes he will be just like before. Very nice and charming and always asking me how I am and other times it's like he is somewhere far away and it's hard to break him out of it. I don't know why but to me it just doesn't seem like he's very interested in what I have to say anymore. His answers are very short. He hasn't been being mean or cold...just distant so I'm not sure what's going on here. The money is still the same but I'm really worried that that's going to change if I don't do something...How do I keep this attention?

[Raine31]

What do you mean he's getting bored with you? How can you tell that? Is it just a general not paying attention to you? You said that he's been quiet. SDs are busy guys and they can't always give us 100% of their attention even when we want them to. Maybe there's something more going on with his life that has nothing to do with you. Has he not been telling you things when you've asked him? You said that he's been distant with you so you should just ask him point blank what's going on

[Maidforyou]

I feel like he's just not listening when I talk to him anymore. He used to be really into me but now it's like he's somewhere else and I don't know what I'm doing wrong or how to fix it either. The other day we went out to dinner and he just sat there the whole time and barely said three words to me. He wasn't on his phone or anything but he was just nodding to whatever I was saying but I don't think that he was actually listening. We still went back to the hotel room and had sex but it just felt...off. I don't know how else to explain it. It's like he just wasn't there and I want to know if it's something that I did and how I can fix it

[Raine31]

I mean tbh it really doesn't sound good but he could be distracted for lots of reasons. I don't think that it always has to be something bad. I mean he could be stressed out at work. Maybe there's something that's going on at his job that is giving him stress. It's a good sign that he isn't cancelling on you and that he's still seeing you. Why don't you book a couples massage for the two of you or just give him one yourself. I think that will pick his mood right up and also it might be just what he needs to open to up to you

[Maidforyou]

You really think so? I mean he has been mentioning that he's having trouble landing a deal at work. He told me that when I asked him how work was going but he never said anything after that so I don't know if that's it. He said that he wanted to get this big account but that he wasn't sure where they were going to go. I guess that it could be just stress but is there anyway that I can know for sure? I just need to know what's going with him

[Raine31]

Well I mean you can just ask him. Just say that you've noticed him being distant lately and wanted to know if anything was wrong. Tell him that you understand if he doesn't want to talk about it but that you're here for him if he does. I think that should cover everything but you can also just see if he comes out of it on his own

[Maidforyou]

I know I should trust him to just tell me the truth but I really want him to know that he can tell me anything. I feel like he thinks that I'm not mature enough to talk to about more serious things or something

[Raine31]

Where did that come from? Has he ever said anything like that? You're driving yourself crazy trying to read his mind when he can just take a minute and ask him what's going on. Just talk to him